Learn to dance

If you are serious about finding a girlfriend or you just enjoy the company of woman more than getting together with the guys the best chance you have to meet a good woman is to go dancing. FreeStyle, Swing and Shag are the most popular dances. Dancing is a lot of fun and its good exercise so if you can dance you are off to a great start. If you don’t know how to dance trust me you can learn. Most cities and large towns have studios that do group classes or try looking on Meetup to find a group of singles that have dancing as one of the events. The one I belong to has dancing three nights a week and about to add a fourth in addition to there other activities.



Don’t fall into the category of the “PLAYER“, you will find them sitting at the bar scanning the room looking for a woman to hit on. For the life of me, I don’t understand the concept.  Ninety-nine point nine percent of the woman I know are really turned off and although they will dance with them some, will never leave with them. They will tell all their friends who they are and what their game is.

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Sending Signals If you like the guy.

Sending Signals

Photo by: Hermes Rivera

If you’re hitting it off you still need to send him a signal that you want him to ask you out because he may think you are just being friendly or kind. A lot of guys and woman in our age group that are widowed or divorced are somewhat insecure when it comes to asking a woman out. We are all vulnerable and don’t want to set our self up for disappointment and rejection. You may need to make it very clear your interested in spending an afternoon or evening doing something you both enjoy whether it’s a lunch or dinner, movie or theater. Its perfectly respectable for you to say (you)  “I have a ticket to a play and I don’t want to go alone, would you care to join me”? Or (you) “I was thinking of trying this new restaurant have you been there”? He may jump right in and say  (him) “No I haven’t would you like to join me”? All you need to do is find a way to break the ice.




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