Senior Dating

You like her

You’ve spent some time talking with someone and you think you like her. Everyone wants to be liked and make a good impression but don’t overdo it. When you meet someone you like and feel you want to spend a little one-on-one time with her it’s only natural to put your best foot forward and you should. But first step back and ask your self why you are attracted to her. Are you both on the same wavelength?  Do you like the same things? You should not tell her things you…

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Recovering From Loss

Live Every Day Like You Mean It

Getting out of the house is a good way to start. The best thing you can do for yourself is to be good to yourself. Go see a movie if you don’t want to interact with others right away, its OK! Go places that you went too together it may be hard but in time it will get easier and the sadness will turn into a fondness for good memories. How much time? Well, that all depends on how long it’s been and how soon you start. You may be…

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Recovering From Loss

Making New Friends & Keeping The Old Ones

For whatever reason, some of your friends that are married and enjoyed getting together as couples will drift away. It is not because they don’t like you they do It’s just a different dynamic now, stay in touch regularly with them, have a lunch or dinner with them they want to stay in touch and care how you’re doing. So how do you find more friends that are like minded and you have things in common with? I was very fortunate to have found a group within the Meetup community.…

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Recovering From Loss

Everyone is gone and your on your own

This is as hard for me to write as it is for you to read but maybe I can clear up a few things to help guide you in your journey. I can remember thinking to myself and say “Now I have to send out the thank you…reply’s, read the condolences and finalize all of the unpleasant details”. You may find it hard to function at all, I know I did. If your lucky your children or close family relatives will help you and you need to let them its…

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Recovering From Loss

Yes I’m going there and I’ve been there.

Yes, I’m going there and I’ve been there. Now your alone and wondering What the hell happened, What do I do now? It sounds cold and I’m sorry but facts are facts. Find a local grief share group a lot of churches provide this to anyone or talk with friends, clergy or rabbi and tell them what you feel. The sooner the better. I found a grief share group and went two weeks after my wife passed away. Only you will know when and who to talk to but do it…

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